Why is it that so many in this country have a problem with getting old? Botox, hair coloring, dressing like the younger generation, using their weird verbiage and trying to act like them. What is so bad about aging? Sure, it sucks some times, and it'd be nice to be free from responsibilities, but, you can't run from reality. This was brought to mind last week when, in a truck stop, I saw this couple. They looked to be in their early 50's, a little older than me. The guys hair was 3 different shades, and it looked like a mutant mullet crossed with an attempted Highlander pony tail. He was wearing clothes not suited to a man with chest and drawer disease. The woman had the same problem. Rather than look young, it made them look silly and sad. We all age. That is how it works. 60 is NOT the new 40. 60 is 60. You no longer bounce, or bounce back after bouncing like you once did. It's much easier to injure yourself. Your reflexes are slower. Ideally, the knowledge, and, if you're lucky, the wisdom you've accumulated over the years helps you to avoid these injuries by working or playing smarter.

These days, our society seems to worship youth, to idolize it. This is society's loss. There is a lot of wisdom available from older folks if you simply take an interest and listen. Listen to their stories. There are lessons in them for one who listens. Not all, but many. Sure there are some nuts you'll run across, but, more often, you may find you've found a mentor. I have. Even as I age, I've found those older than me who I've learned from. Use their knowledge. Respecting ones elders can be accomplished without being an a$$ kisser. Just take an interest. You might even find a new friend.